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Ask Marie – December 2012

Have a question for Marie? She answers questions written into her website in her quarterly newsletter. As an Intuitive, Marie is able to read the energy of the author and gain intuitive information to answer the questions regardless if she has ever met the person. Only first names will be used and other identifying qualifiers will be changed to create anonymity.

Thank you as always for writing into my quarterly newsletter!  It’s a pleasure and an honor to answer your questions.  I trust the information will be helpful or lead you to a healthy resolution!

Dear Marie,

I have been trying to break into freelance writing and write a novel for the past 3 years. I have had a few articles published and I am finally starting to truly believe in my novel. But overall, I am having very little success. Whichever way I ask myself it feels like writing is my path. Therefore, it’s mind-boggling to me that I am finding it so difficult.

Can you please tell me if there is something I am not doing right? If there is something else I should focus on to get in more of a flow?

Thanks so much! 


Dear Jytte,

I believe that paths are about joy. If you feel joy when you write, even if you never publish a darn thing, then yes, writing is your path!

That said, below is a incredibly helpful tool to create what you want while simultaneously healing negative feelings and beliefs that can block success.

Spend a few minutes each day FEELING that what you want has already occurred. FEEL the joy and gratitude of accomplishment and success! Even if you’re not sure what that might look like. Feeling the final feelings through your mind, body and soul a few minutes each day will bring everything and more of what you want into your life!

I’m doing a little happy dance in my heart for you right now!

Happy Holidays,

Dear Marie,

My sister told me about you and because she was very impressed by your work, that made me to go to your homepage and listen to your radio shows. And I was impressed too.

I would like to ask you about my personal and professional life.  I have a boyfriend who is scared to have a relationship and who lives at 38 years, with his mother and sister.  I work in a place that is full with negative energy and I  have worked here since 2001. I am very unhappy because I don’t like it at all at this place. I developed problems with my breasts and my thyroid gland (lumps).

What should I do?

Best regards,

Dear Crenquta,

You are so cute. You already know what to do. Leave those things that no longer feed your heart, behind. This will create new opportunities for a better work environment, and a healthier relationship. You know what is best, but are afraid to make necessary changes. Always walk toward fear, for it serves as an invitation for change. I don’t believe your boyfriend is open to change. You have given him plenty of time to do so. Be the change you wish to see at work and in your love life. Choose you and all things that support your dreams and happiness.

A healthy thyroid gland represents balance with self-expression. It’s hard for you to express your personal truth. Journaling everyday the feelings you won’t put into words can be a very effective healing tool for this lovely gland. Receiving energy into the upper back aids in breast health. One of my favorite exercises can be found in my first book, Intuitive Self-Healing (page #: 83) or simply print off chakra exercises for adults from my website.

Have a blessed holiday season!

Dear Marie,

I was having trouble energetically for about a year and a half, and it really started after caring for this one person. Eventually this person pushed me out of his life, but somehow I ended up with mood swings that I had no control of, which has never happened to me in my life. It got to a degree that I could be suicidal for a moment then when I suspected that this was energy from him, it suddenly went away. When he moved away I wrote him a very heartfelt and kind goodbye letter. A few moments after that both my arms to my fingers started to sore very severely…then my hips and legs as well. It was pretty much total body pain and I ended up with a racing mind unable to sleep the whole night. I was reading about the heart chakra’s connection to them, but I don’t know if that’s from me or from him. 

A few days after that every time I thought about him I had severe nausea at the solar plexus. I actually gagged a few times. This persisted for a month. Following some heavy crying the sensation became hunger pains, and I went from not being able to swallow to eating a lot. I already knew that I was very sad and angry, and I was crying everyday to get them out, so I couldn’t understand why these things still manifested physically or were they from him? It’s been months and I’m still having moments of severe headaches, depression attacks – when even the air seemed heavy and nauseous to me. I was wondering if you have any insight on this? I’m sensitive, but can’t see how to resolve the problems left over in my energy field. I feel that my suicidal-to-joy-of-life mood swings are making me completely insane without a proper diagnosis! I hope this can shed some light for your other readers as well!

Thank you!

Dear Rose,

I’m so sorry to hear about your struggle. It can feel maddening to go back and forth with such strong emotions. I don’t believe the energetic and emotional feelings you describe are from the man that was in your life. I believe these are related to unhealed feeling originating in your being. When I look at your energy I can see an addiction to catastrophic feelings and a clinging to a hopeful outcome. It’s almost impossible to create peace when we are attracted (unconsciously) to chaos. This most likely originated in childhood left over from a past life.

Whenever you begin thinking scary and terrifying thoughts, try interrupting the pattern with a simple affirmation – What if all my dreams came true…This beautiful admission will create wonder instead of dread and energetically align your being to truth rather than fear.

I wish you the best of happiness!

Dear Marie,

I have a health problem that has gotten bigger. My left lower intestine hurts.  I did natural anti-bacteria health solutions, like garlic and oil of oregano and coconut kefir.I might be anemic, but I take in plenty of iron with foods.  I might have diverticulitis.  I am under doctor’s care.  They have taken lab tests.  I eat very well and exercise. Because it might become an ordeal (you know it takes a while for doctors to figure out what is going on) and I am going to follow their instructions, could you please give me some input on this?

I don’t have health insurance right now and I am stressed out giving over my health/body, to (maybe) subpar healthcare.  They diagnosed me with diverticulitis without taking an X-ray or anything else.  

Thank you very much,

Dear Jennifer,

I’m sorry to hear about your pain. I would continue with the natural program you were originally on. Healing intestines can take time. The third layer of your auric field is playing a role in your healing and the best way to advance the course of cure is to reduce any self-negative talk.

The third layer of the aura oversees energy that enters the third chakra. This chakra governs the intestine; 80% of your immune system. When we think poorly of ourselves there is a reduced flow of healthy energy entering into the third chakra and your intestines. This can lead to illness and hinder healing.

If you’re unsure of your thoughts, get a small notebook and keep track of how many negative and positive thoughts you have each day. When you notice a negative thought replace it with a positive statement – Each and every day I allow my being to heal.  I love me!

Positive thoughts and feelings allow energy to flow and create health where ever they go.

All the best!!

Dear Marie,

Dealing with the loss of our son has left our family devastated. Since his loss the spiritual activity is very high. Is my son or other spirits trying to tell us something? Am I allowing any negative energy in when I pursue pictures etc.? The photos I have are quite amazing, orbs, mists different color energy, solar lights energy being sucked up into to the air. My dog is also seeing different things, I cannot see. We miss him so much, and wish him happiness, but our loss has left us with a big hole in our hearts.


Dear Amee,

I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Losing a child is one of the darkest bereavement we humans can experience. Yes, you are feeling and seeing the energy of your son. He loves how happy it makes everyone in the family feel, including the dog! Your son is perfect, enjoying the otherside and doing his best to show you he is safe and well.

We all leave the Earth plane at different times. If someone leaves their bodies at the age of 80, we generally feel that person has led a full life. But, if a person transitions to the otherside much earlier, a feeling of betrayal generally follows. How long a person lives in a body truly doesn’t matter. Evolving our consciousness is the main reason we travel to this physical aspect. If we leave before the ripe age of 80 (or beyond) its because we learned so much in a shorter period of time. And our soul is calling us home.

Please know that you did a fantastic job helping your son grow and enrich his soul! He will be near you always, helping you to let go of any limiting fears you may have about your new relationship.

All my love,

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