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Dear Marie,

I hold myself back in all kinds of situations. A close confidante refers to it as my “governor.” It’s like I throttle everything back. I’m aware of it. I believe I understand the source of it in my childhood. Namely, that flying under the radar and not being noticed was a self-defense method. So far, so good. But I have not found a way to rid myself of it. And when I try with baby steps, I either overreact (ex. purchasing something pricey) or revert back. I assume developing more self-love would remedy this. Regardless, I feel stuck. Any ideas?

– Joyce

 

Dear Joyce,

You are correct, having a loving internal dialogue towards yourself would be most advantageous. Especially when you feel you are not in alignment or that you are doing something wrong. Speaking loving internal words towards yourself all the time will open many doors for you effortlessly!

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie,

I am from India. My 65-year-old husband Rajiv who was a fighter pilot in the Indian Air Force has suffered from Parkinson’s for the last 6 and a half years. He has whole body tremors, and his knees tend to bend while walking. What can be done to cure this chronic condition? We will be grateful for the guidance.

Thank you,

Ingita

 

Dear Ingita,

I’m so sorry your husband is dealing with a disease. All disease is related to repressed emotions. Once we allow these emotions to leave our body then energy can move into the areas affected and begin to change the particle mass structure so one’s health can return to normal. Or at the very least, so one can see some desired improvement. Parkinson’s disease is about exerting too much control in one’s life in order to feel safe. It will be important for him to exert less control in his environment while practicing feeling safe. The lack of feeling safe is from his childhood. Many times, we simply need to remind ourselves that our childhood is complete.

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie,

My sister-in-law died tragically three years ago. Since that time, I have been very involved in the lives of my adult niece and nephew. Wonderful things are happening in their lives – they are amazing people! My question concerns their mom and how she is doing on the Otherside. I wonder if she is working through the issues that contributed to her death and if she has any messages for me or her children? Side-note: I LOVE your What If cards!

Thank you so much for the work you do in this world,

Erin

 

Dear Erin,

I like to think of a passing as the time an individual wanted to cross over. There are many reasons why a soul would want to leave Earth. One of them being that they are tired of trying to figure things out in the physical world and are inspired to continue their journey in the nonphysical. Your sister-in-law feels that her kids are in good hands. She’s thrilled with their growth and feels their improvement has a lot to do with her passing. She thanks you for loving them so dearly. Everyone is working on their beliefs, even when there seems to be very little evidence of inner work. I’m so glad you like the What If Cards…new cards coming soon!!!

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie!

I believe I have fully connected, or reconnected should I say, to a very special guide who is helping cocreate a lot of neat projects with me and who happens to be from the Pleiades star system. Can you confirm this and any other insight you are getting from this connection we have?

Thank you!

Lori

 

Dear Lori,

If you are feeling inspired and cherished, you are indeed in reciprocal communication with a guide. I don’t hang out with the Pleiades star system so I can’t confirm that specific connection.

Love,

Marie


Hello Marie,

What are the benefits to drinking squeezed lemon in water? How is it best to drink it? Please tell us all about it!

Thank you!

Gretchen

 

Dear Gretchen,

Warm or hot water first thing in the morning with a half of a fresh squeezed lemon will decompress the gallbladder.

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie!

My mom has middle stage vascular dementia, and I am her main support person. Her memory loss, as well as her anxiety and fears, have increased substantially since my dad died four years ago. As we navigate through this, I feel that we are caught up in our family’s dysfunction as my mom’s dementia and needs increase. I am totally committed to supporting her through this but her delusions that people are coming into her suite and stealing her things, her loss of understanding about time and money, and her neediness for reassurance and love amid her constant worries and fears make it challenging. I was wondering if you could offer some insight into our dynamics and if you or my dad would possibly have words to guide us.

Thank you so much for helping us as well as all the good you have done for me through your podcasts, classes and writing.

Nicole

 

Dear Nicole,

For most patients of dementia, the experience is not fun. Especially for family members. I think it will be important for you to remain in your body and not care so much about what is going on for her as fixing it is highly unlikely.

Most of your mom’s energy is on the Otherside hanging out with your dad. Trying to read her or help her mentally will only bring stress to you. Can you celebrate her choices? Because everyone is choosing their experiences. Obviously not consciously choosing, but still choosing. When you are with her, stay in your own body and be very loving to yourself. Be okay with reminding her that everything is well while knowing that she can’t hold onto that information for long.

Do your best to be okay with her dementia. I find it so interesting that as a society we’re okay with a women experiencing excruciating pain due to childhood. In fact, we celebrate its natural process. But we are very disconnected to other aspects that affect the human body. And yet it is all the same.

Your dad is having a blast with your mom!

Love,

Marie


Dear Marie,

At age 71, it seems like all sorts of little and big things (re: my health) are piling up and interfering with my life (severe idiopathic neuropathy, tight muscles in throat, intestinal issues that may be due to too many antibiotics for recurrent UTIs, and more).

It’s interfering with my life, and I don’t want more medicine. I know it’s all generally about fear, loving myself, etc. but with my ADHD I’m so overwhelmed that I don’t know where to start or focus.

How can I simplify enough to just listen or whatever I need? I just can’t – and don’t want to – work this hard for work or healing. I just want to play, enjoy, love, serve. What is the crux of all this that perhaps encompasses all and I may be able to make a shift?

– Stephanie

 

Dear Stephanie,

ADHD is just another way of saying that someone is addicted to their mind and is refusing to let go of their thoughts. I would definitely find a naturopath, use red light therapy, and work on releasing your frustration as that is what is attracting the UTI’s.

Red light/near infrared light therapy will work wonders on most of your health issues. Do your best to not focus on the body and consider taking compounded hormones. Your mind is yours and you can manage it so that it focuses on the positive as much as possible.

Love,

Marie


Dear Marie,

My friend is two to three months pregnant. She has had miscarriages and has four boys under the ages of seven. She is highly intuitive and thinks there is a problem with her waters (in the past they have broken weeks early). This one does not fit anything she has experienced. I am worried about preeclampsia.

What could she/I do to help?

– Su

 

Dear Su,

Your friend already has many wonderful children. Does her body really want more? This is what I would look at. It’s important to listen to our wonderful body and follow its recommendation – not the minds reference, but the beautiful body’s wisdom.

Love,

Marie


Dear Marie,

I have been trying to discover more about Spirit Guides. What are they – meaning, what type of being? Where do they come from? How can I communicate with them for myself and communicate with the guides of other people? How do I know they’re even real?

Thanks,

Lisa

 

Dear Lisa,

Spirit guides live on the Otherside, and you choose several before you incarnate to guide you here on Earth. Before we reincarnate to Earth, we pass through the veil that erases our past lives and wipes what we wish to work on from our memory as we journey here. Guides know all of the forgotten information and guide us towards making excellent choices. Guides are always communicating to you. Becoming present and knowing yourself well while working on your belief system allows you to become conscious of their communication and will allow you to connect with other people’s guides too.

Love,

Marie


Marie,

I hired you for a personal session a few years ago following a traumatic court case. Thank you – it helped!

I’m finally ready to date again after being around my ex-husband who I subconsciously still felt bonded to. I couldn’t move forward for years due to all the time spent with him coparenting and generally feeling mentally blocked by him psychologically.

The night before Thanksgiving he told me we have no future. That helped me release the invisible cord and trauma bond. I signed up for a dating app that night. I didn’t go on any dates on the app but ten days later met a gentleman at a hotel. I decided to take my kids on a staycation and this gentleman was doing the same thing with his kids.

We are both getting out of divorces but his is fresher. We have met throughout the month. I feel like I’m talking to my best friend when we are together. He feels the same with me. I’m 50 and he’s 42. Two issues: 1) he’s eight years younger, and 2) he is not ready for the pressure of a relationship. Should I just still be his friend and try to date elsewhere?

He grew up with parents that abandoned and neglected him, and he doesn’t feel worthy of love and has very negative self-talk. I’m used to being heavily pursued and have always dated self-assured, rich, powerful men. He’s the opposite and I’m not sure what to do.

Thanks,

Marie

 

Dear Marie,

I’m so glad you are now divorced and figuring out what you want. Neither you nor your new person have had much, if any, time alone. I think he is smart not to move into a committed relationship at this time. Yet, you are already acting like partners. If you can be okay with this relationship not becoming long term, then stay and have fun. Otherwise, you might want to revisit your connection.

An eight year age difference is nothing! Hopefully he feels that way. I think you have a lot to explore regarding who you really are and what you desire in life before you consider moving into another long term relationship.

Enjoy where you are and please don’t overthink it. Continue being honest with each other and enjoying one another without trying to figure it out.

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie!

As I continue to expand my consciousness and come to the realization that I am the observer, how can I help train the cells in my body to believe that? I feel like they are permanently programmed to be in survival mode. Any input would be appreciated.

Much love,

Eileen

 

Dear Eileen,

Survival mode comes from overthinking. Your body might be feeling wonderful! Remember the brain cannot feel, yet it will constantly share thoughts of fear as if they are feelings. Do your best to ignore your mind and discover what it is you are really feeling. This alignment will most likely surprise and delight you.

Love,

Marie


Hi Marie.

I’m wondering if you believe it’s true that “you have to feel to heal”? Because of childhood trauma, I’ve been disassociating most of my life (I’m very sensitive) to avoid feeling more pain. This has led me to now feel sort of numb, and hence, unable to feel love or joy. Wouldn’t trying to stay in a high frequency all the time be spiritual bypassing?

Thank you, and I look so forward to your response!

Kelly

 

Dear Kelly,

I think one needs to be connected to their authentic feelings to manifest well. All things can be healed, including childhood trauma. Raising your vibrational energy to a high frequency isn’t spiritual bypass; in fact, one may become more observant of repressed feelings when the particle mass is elevated for there is more landscape to observe from that high observational level.

Love,

Marie

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